To My Friend Who Just Have Break Off With...

When problems happened in a relationship, the fastest way to resolve it is to make yourself become the problem.

It doesn’t mean that you have to blame yourself or feel guilty by seeing yourself as the problem. It is just a creative way of seeking for solution.

And you’ll realize that when you are willing to see yourself as the problem, it is much easier for you to come out with a solution. This helps to save time and energy we often waste on pointing the fingers at others. It also helps to live a healthier life as we can get rid of unnecessary stress and anger that often get involved when problems occurred.

...laugh...

Feeling to share the joke I read recently at StarNews. It goes like this:-

God created a mule and told him that he will be a beast of burden serving man, and will live for 50 years. The mule pleaded to have a shoter life not more than 20 years and it was so.

Then God created a dog and told him that he will guard the owner's house and eat the scraps from the dinner table. It will live for 25 years. The dog pleaded for a shorter miserable life below 10 years and it was so.

God then created a monkey and told him that he will behave like a fool and idiot for 20 years. The monkey pleaded for 10 years and it was so.

Finally God created man and told him. "You will be the only rational being, and will use your intelligence to have mastery over all creatures of the earth. You will dominate the earth and live for 20 years."

The man responded. "Lord, to be a man for 20 years only is too little. Please give me the 30 years the mule refused,the 15 years the dog refused, and the 10 years the monkey refused."., and it was so. Eversince the grant of that wish, man's life goes somewhat like this:-
He lives the first 20 years happily, until he gets married and have children. He slogged like a mule for the next 30 years, bring up the children and taking care of the family. For the next 15 years, he lives like a dog, guarding the house and ate leftover food after the children had their meals. Finally in his old age, he lives the last 10 years like a monkey, fooling and entertaining his grand children like an idiot.

AND SO IT HAS BEEN EVER SINCE ! :-)

decision...

Who going to made the decision? whether this way r correct or not? sure i follow by this? should i?Yes!! definately, you and i, everyone, everyone around us - make decisions every day of our lives.

We're born with the ability to do so; but along the way as we live, learn and grow, outside influences can impact our decision-making process. We can choose to do the right thing or the wrong thing in any given situation(although some of time we do no know where is the right thing or there is wrong). Our decisions are based either on our own personal view of what is right and what is wrong, or, for those vulnerable to the influence of others, They can be based on fear or belief''s not their own. It takes courage to stay true to oneself, knowing what is the right thing to do at any given moment during each day of our lives. Those who would bend the minds of the young, or vulnerable, influencing them to hurt or destroy others with acts of terror, are radicals with no respect for life, not even their own. Terrorists work hard to influence others to abandon their inborn ability to make decisions for themselves and to follow their destructive way of thinking.

So, Deep in the heart of every human is a desire to live, to love, and to progress. In the years ahead, we all must have the courage to think for ourselves.

men make better friends

Friendship between Women: A woman didn't come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept the night at a friend's house. The man called his wife's 10 best friends. None of them knew about it.!!

Friendship between Men: A man didn't come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept the night at a friend's house. The woman called her husband's 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept there , and two claimed that he was still there!!

-there is no FREE lunch-

Everybody today seems to feel that there is an easier way out. Sure there is but there is still no Free lunch! Everybody thinks that with the internet, it's very easy to make money. They hear stories like Bill Gates, Steve Job, Jerry Yang, Amazon dot.com, Yahoo, and think that these people make their money without much effort. The problem is the real tough side has always been covered by all the Hipe.


Do you know that these very people work as much as 16 or 18 hrs a day in building their businesses? Do you know that for every one who succeeded, 1000 failed?


There is no such thing as something for nothing. You have to work it. I know many people are being introduced to many kind of opportunities. And if you all think that you can get money just by sitting- you are in for a big disappointment.


Let tell a story here(link from ''fare to fail''):-

Long ago there was a King who a bit lazy. One day, he feel want to know a lot things and he summoned all the wise-men and asked them to compile all the knowledge and wisdom in the world and put it into one place so that he can study them.


So off went all the wisemen to do the King's bidding. After a year, they came back with 100 volumes of books of knowledge and wisdom. Upon looking at the huge number of volumes, he began to think "I need an easier way".


So he ordered the wisemen to condense the 100 volumes with one. Finally after another year, the wisemen came back with one volume. But the single volume was very thick - about 1000 pages.When the King saw it, the thought came into his mind again, "I need an easier way." So he told all the wisemen that it will take him too long to finish it what more to remember it.
So he ordered that all the knowledge and wisdom to be condensed into just one single page. There was a hue and cry among the wisemen but they have no choice. They either have to do it or have their head chopped off!


So the head Wiseman gathered all his colleague together to have a meeting to resolve this predicament. The meeting last through nights - finally they came up at last with one single page- all the knowledge and wisdom of the world!
Upon hearing this, the King was so delighted and quickly ordered that the page be brought before him. At last he is going to learn all the knowledge and wisdom of the world by just reading one single page.


When the day arrived, it was not only the King who was excited to know about it. The whole Kingdom came out to want to know about it.
The King took the single page from the head Wiseman, open it and learnt the greatest wisdom of the world. On it was written just one sentence:-

"There is no FREE Lunch!"

why i been here

Many of you have always been asking this question: "Why am I here?" It is just to go to school, get a job, marry, have children, bring them up and die? And our children will later go into the same routine and routine. Is that what life is all about?Is that what we get and gone about? In order to measure that, we need to look at the end. Our end is to be happy.

So all friends and members, what do you all think about? Everyone might have your own opinionated!! Just feel free to drop some of your opinion here:-